Is It Wrong To Date a Married Milf?

Dating has changed. Yes. Dating married people is something that has been happening since the very idea of marriage existed. It’s one of the many forms of the forbidden fruit that people love. But it’s extremely frowned upon and people don’t take kindly to homewreckers. The rules around dating married people has loosened as the very nature of marriage has been called into question more and more. There are a lot of married milfs in the cougar community who are seeking younger men to please them when their older husbands can’t get the job done. So is it wrong to date a milf if she is married.

I have been in this position before and I have to say that I did date outside the confines of my previous marriage. As a milf with a high sex drive, my husband just couldn’t satisfy me the same way younger men with high libidos could. I craved that young spunk and was barely sleeping with my husband at all. It was all hush-hush in the beginning but it became something I discussed with my husband eventually. It became an open subject of conversation as I was going through my divorce proceedings and eventually became a single cougar on the prowl. That’s obviously when it was no longer an issue.

It’s my belief that monogamous relationships aren’t for everyone. On cougar dating websites, you will probably find a lot of milfs who are either married or going through the stages of divorce. A very common type of hitched cougar seeking a younger man is the sugar mama who is hunting for a cub. Men do this all the time with younger women and plenty of men cheat on their wives like it’s nothing. It feels even more taboo for some reason when I woman’s eye begins to stray towards younger men.

Young men attempt to grapple with this scenario, wondering if they are doing something inherently wrong by going after a married cougar and potentially becoming homewreckers themselves. Is dating or having sex with a cougar who is in a committed relationship a bad thing? It’s a trying question. Especially confusing is when it’s evident that her spouse is not satisfying her fierce sexual cougar needs or barely even trying. Women have urges that need to be satisfied.

I am not here to make a gigantic judgment call on a situation that can be viewed from various perspectives and angles. A moral compass used to be something society considered as black and white. Right and wrong. This is no longer the way the structure is set up. Every married cougar who is out looking for a younger man to sleep with is dealing with her own unique life and choices. I don’t think that all married milfs should be damned if they can’t find fulfillment in their marriages. But sleeping with a married person, in general, is not the most responsible way to handle your sex life.

It’s never a good idea to go out of your way to hurt anyone. So it’s going to be up to you to define if it’s right or wrong to be dating a cougar who already has a ring on her finger. Don’t let the thrill of a good time cloud your judgment. Assess the situation to figure out what is actually best and what isn’t.

There may be women on cougar dating sites who don’t disclose their marital status. I don’t believe it’s necessarily your responsibility to ask every single attractive milf on an adult dating site if they are single or not. If your concern is that the cougar you are courting might be married due to nothing more than a gut feeling, let it go. But you may find women who note that they are divorced or going through a divorce.

If the cougar who gets you excited admits that she is in the middle of a divorce it is ok to keep pursuing her. Treat her as you would any other woman. You are allowed to ask whether or not her husband is aware that she is on dating apps but again, it’s not your responsibility. Just keep in mind that you might be throwing yourself into the middle of a complicated situation. There are plenty of cougars who are single. Is the lady you are dating worth the added stress of her impending divorce? Is that something you are prepared to get in the middle of? If you are just hoping to sleep around with a milf, then maybe look elsewhere for your jollies. But if you really love this milf with whom you are flirting, or see real potential for building a future with her, simply maintain an open line of communication with her.

It becomes complicated and unfair to the cub if the milf shares that she is married after a flirtation or relationship has already been established. Watch out for this as it may indicate that the milf you are flirting with gets a thrill from having an affair. This is the time to trust your gut and decide if you still want to proceed with this woman. If you decide to move forward, do so with extreme caution. It’s never fun to piss off the older man that she is sharing the other half of her life with.

This question is one that comes up in both non-cougar relationships and cougar courtships alike. But with older women who have a lot of life experience and potentially a life before you (which may or may not include children by the way), you need to be extra cautious. Keep your priorities straight and remember to prioritize your wellbeing rather than putting the thrill of an affair before stability.