Meeting a milf or cougar in the real world isn’t as simple as Hollywood would have you believe. Yes. There are tons of horny older women out there. But they aren’t showing you all of their cards all the time. What I mean is that horny women in the real world keep their fantasies about younger men under wraps. This is either because they don’t want to hurt their reputations, let their husbands find out, or come across as desperate in their community. It’s so much easier to find a milf online.

There are various types of dating sites out there that match young men with milfs directly. These websites are created specifically for the cougar and young man relationship. Milf dating sites will set you up with an older woman who is pining after guys just like you. There are also sites that set cougars up with cubs in a sugar mama capacity. Then there are the adult dating sites that are designed to cater to all different types of adult dating and hookups, like Tinder.  It’s not impossible to find a milf on these sites. On the contrary! But because you are searching through a pool of women who are both younger and older, cougars and regular women, you are going to need to be a bit more specific when attempting to find, court, and date a cougar.

Cougars are a specific breed of eligible women. They aren’t like all the other young girls you’re used to finding on this app. The terms cougar and milf also don’t apply to every single older woman that you’ll find on the app. You need to know what you are looking for and the version of yourself to display to the potential matches that you’ll find on these dating sites. In this article, we will teach you how to spot a cougar, match with a cougar, and impress her enough for her to want to meet up with you in the real world.

Finding a Cougar

Finding a cougar on this map is like playing iSpy. You need to look for the clues and set yourself up for success. The first and most important thing to keep in mind is your age preference setting. Set your age preference to the lowest possible number you’d fee comfortable with. Most men looking to date a cougar will set the lowest age to around 39-40. This will weed out all the young inexperienced ladies who you aren’t interested in. Then you need to make sure that your location settings are close enough to you. This is because milfs are busy women and the last thing they want to do is travel far to find a man.

While you are on the hunt for your cougar try to pick up on clues that inform you of their cougar status. Once your age preference and location preference is set, you’ll be shown a host of available older women who have their age settings young enough to match with you. In her profile, look for words and phrases like divorced, seeking a younger man, or even cougar. Look at her profile for quintessential milf photos. They might include selfies, photos at the gym, or pics at the country club. Go after a woman who gives off sexual energy. Not the lady with a photo of her kids at Disneyland followed by a sunset photo of the ocean. You’re looking for heat, not mom jeans.

Matching With a Cougar

Matching on dating sites means that you both liked each other enough to either literally or metaphorically swipe right. You might swipe right on a ton of cougars and not match with any. That’s going to have everything to do with the way you are showing yourself to those milfs. What does your profile say about you? What kind of photos are you using? Take my advice: You want to show sexy photos that exude youth without coming across like a frat star. If you’ve got abs, show them off. Beach photos are always a plus and include many clear pictures of your face. If you are hiding behind sunglasses in each photo, she won’t know what she’s looking at. If you really want to attract the milfs, add a line about seeking an older woman in your profile. It will draw the cougars your way!

Impressing a Cougar

The work is not over once you match with a gorgeous older woman. That’s really just the beginning. Now you’ll need to flirt your way into making a meeting happen for both of you. Lucky for you, milfs and cougars don’t need to spend days and days messaging back and forth before deciding to meet someone. This is a trend for younger women, but older women like to get straight to the point. Bring out all the charm as you are messaging her and shoot a few compliments your way. Comment on how well she dresses or how stunning she looks in her photos. Ask about her daily life and show interest both in the woman as someone to hook up with and as someone to date. Milfs like it when they can see substance in their online matches. Assume that she’s got a few suitors in that dating inbox so pull out all the stops. Playing it cool doesn’t get you very far with a milf on a dating app.

Finding, matching, and impressing a cougar on an adult dating app is not rocket science. You don’t have to be a genius to figure out what a cougar responds to. Heed this advice and you will find your dating app flooded with sexy potentials who are looking to spend time with a young man such as yourself!