Men often start dating milfs with the idea that they’ll get to sleep with an older woman. Cougars are exciting and thrilling women with a ton to offer. The sex is always incredible because they know what they are doing. At the minimum, they know how to please a man more than a college broad does because they have had skin in the game for a significantly longer amount of time. Their skills in the bedroom make men fall all over themselves. When the original intention was to sleep with Mrs. Robinson just a couple of times, it can be intimidating when you find yourself thinking about her sexual prowess all day long. Milfs have also mastered the art of conversation and are intellectual creatures with a lot of interesting things to talk about. Their life stories are often deep, intertwined with unique adventures that regular girls just can’t keep up with. There’s a pivotal moment in most milf relationships when the man courting her knows that he has begun to develop feelings. Unsure of whether or not the milf wants to take things to the next level, he may fear bringing up his emotions to her. Suddenly, you have fallen in love with a milf.

When this happens, men don’t know how to react. Some jump the gun and try to dive into a serious relationship before it’s right. With time and age already on the mind, it’s easy to see how this can happen. But when you fall in love with a milf, there are aspects of the relationship and your own future that you need to consider before taking that gigantic leap…

Some things to consider… 

In the throes of emotion, you might want to go and tell your milf how you feel immediately. That is not advisable. She has feelings and future plans too and spilling your guts to her is actually selfish. Let me tell you why. Not all milf hookups are meant to be relationships… and this is based primarily on your wants and needs. For example, if you want children and the milf you are dating is too old to have children, you might be setting yourself up for a disappointing future. Second, if you don’t get along with her kids or don’t plan on taking them under your wing, then you are again stepping into a world that isn’t going to serve you, the milf, or her family. You need to think carefully about your future, what you want, and decide if it is actually best for you to seduce your milf into a serious relationship.

Don’t jump right in

It’s true that milfs hate playing games and don’t love when a guy is trepidatious or beats around the bush. But the right way to strengthen your relationship is not jumping right in. You still need to take your time, play it just right, and respect the game a little bit. This is true when you want to make any woman fall for you. Wondering what moves you should actually make when you want to take your milf relationship beyond the hookup stage? Here is what you should be doing:

Call her more often

Right now you are just hooking up with a milf. Lead the relationship into more serious territory by simply contacting her more often. Don’t bug her all day long. As I am sure you know, she has a life too and is probably very busy. But sending an extra text or calling her more than you normally would will send her the signals that you are interested in something more than just a fling.

Take her on a romantic date

Have you taken your milf on a date yet? Impress her with something really romantic. I think you should totally go all out. Take her to an incredible dinner, a romantic getaway, or a spa vacation. Show her that you have some power to make great things happen for her in her already fabulous life. It’s hard to impress a strong and confident older woman, so give it your absolute best.

Text her goodnight

This is a romantic gesture that will make her think of you right before she falls asleep. Make sure you say your goodnight to the milf you are courting every night. It will establish a semblance of a romantic routine, which will bode well for your goals in the relationship.

Talk about the future

Without professing your love completely… drop hints to your milf that you are considering a future life with her. She will be smart enough to glean your true intentions and it won’t feel like a desperate attempt at capturing her love. These chats about the future are key in solidifying the one you want with your milf.

 

If things are going well enough in the relationship for you to begin considering making it more serious then your milf woman likely has feelings for you too. By making these smaller-scale moves on her, you will show her what your intentions are without scaring her off or appearing sophomoric about the relationship. Use these tips as a guide to bring you into the love affair you are dreaming of having with the woman who has captured your attention.